[poll] faces, finding people in a crowd
Aug. 27th, 2004 11:04 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Wanted to do a poll about visualizing people's faces, as well as relating to the fact that I have a hell of a time finding people in a crowd. Exhausted, but wanted to do this before I forgot. :)
[Poll #341839]
[Poll #341839]
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Date: 2004-08-27 03:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-27 03:34 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-27 03:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-27 03:43 pm (UTC)(So if I get introduced to someone, then I can't remember their name off the top of my head, 15 mins later. That doesn't explain the people who have been vague acquaintances for years and who I suddenly blank on, but anyway.)
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Date: 2004-09-27 03:39 pm (UTC)*chuckle* No, it doesn't. And I do that, sometimes. :)
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Date: 2004-08-27 04:15 pm (UTC)(grin) (But true!)
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Date: 2004-08-30 06:40 pm (UTC)I watched three movies on DVD over the weekend. I can see the actors' faces in my mind's eye, I can explain the plots in some detail, I could probably even quote some of the dialogue. But I can only remember the title of one of them ("Statement") and the fact that the lead actor was Michael Caine - and that took some serious concentration, and the fact that the title appeared over and over in the course of the movie.
I can remember the lyrics to every song the Beatles ever wrote, but I'm spotty on their titles (unless the title is right there in the lyrics) and which albums they're from.
I don't, so far as I know, suffer from ADD or anything like that. I just have a blank spot in the part of my memory that retains proper nouns.
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Date: 2004-09-27 03:41 pm (UTC)Me, too, but I think you've got it worse than I do. Crazy.
You know, I should eventually have a goal of visiting you, since I didn't make it to the APC you were actually at!
That way I can have visited both of the non-southern places that I will never live, in the US. ;)
(probably not until next year at the earliest, but wanted to mention the idea)
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Date: 2004-09-27 03:52 pm (UTC)Alternatively (and more economically) come to apc12 in Baltimore in January. I'll be there. (-:
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Date: 2004-09-27 03:57 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-27 04:51 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-27 05:10 pm (UTC)Also, nod.
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Date: 2004-08-30 06:43 pm (UTC)Oh, I have these, too. But I think these are slightly more common. :)
Re: recognition
Date: 2004-08-27 05:32 pm (UTC)Texture
Date: 2004-08-28 01:48 am (UTC)Can you manage to english parts of it, or describe how a particular person seems to you based on texture?
Re: Texture
Date: 2004-08-31 11:17 am (UTC)Re: Texture
Date: 2004-09-01 06:28 am (UTC)Re: recognition
Date: 2004-08-30 06:44 pm (UTC)It's _really_ difficult for someone I know well to startle me with their behavior, and usually when they do something against the way I think they are, I'm right about it not being quite right.
But I can't explain it...
Re: recognition
Date: 2004-08-31 11:19 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-09-10 08:10 pm (UTC)In many cases (
The confirmation pieces are neccessary, however, for someone to stick in my head for a long period of time even without interaction. Just the sense is not enough.
In the case of someone I meet online, I can develop a sense of a person, but I don't get the basic framework on which I usually attach the confirmations of that sense. So I can only get a sense up to a certain (insufficient and not cohesive) point, and rarely will think of someone I only know online when not interacting with them.
Like, I won't notice, much as I like you both, if you or
Re: recognition
Date: 2004-08-30 06:45 pm (UTC)I _don't_ have a core sense of you, yet, as I do actually need in-person stuff for it. I must have some, though, or I'd not want to meet. Huh...
Re: recognition
Date: 2004-08-31 11:21 am (UTC)Re: recognition
Date: 2004-09-01 06:32 am (UTC)*bounces* And that's (one reason) why I'm still in school. And plan to continue learning, no matter how informal, for the rest of my life.
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Date: 2004-09-10 08:03 pm (UTC)?
Re: expression
Date: 2004-09-11 12:38 am (UTC)Re: recognition
Date: 2004-09-01 06:30 am (UTC)But it's still possible to get a lot of "personality" from phone/email/other communication.
It also requires time, and often them interacting with others for me to "see/feel/sense/understand/develop an opinion of" people
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Date: 2004-08-28 03:33 am (UTC)Still lots of food for thought here.
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Date: 2004-08-30 06:47 pm (UTC)You may have noticed that one of the first things I say to people I meet is that I won't remember their name. It helps stave off the embarrassing moments later. ;)
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Date: 2004-08-30 09:54 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-09-01 06:34 am (UTC)Audio and smell have a solid effect too.
There have been a number of psychological studies on the effect of environment on learning/memory. People who tried to recognize or recall information in the same/similar environment did much better than those who switched to a different place.
Re: embarrassing
Date: 2004-08-31 11:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-28 05:47 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-08-30 06:46 pm (UTC)Interesting. :)
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Date: 2004-09-01 06:39 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-09-01 06:35 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-09-01 01:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-09-01 05:41 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-09-09 04:06 pm (UTC)I often don't realize that someone's name is something I want to learn - since I don't bother learning a name if I'm not going to interact with them enough to have a place to put it - until after I've interacted with them for a while!
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Date: 2004-09-09 06:15 pm (UTC)