[Kitty]

May. 12th, 2006 04:41 pm
wispfox: (curled kitty)
[personal profile] wispfox
([livejournal.com profile] jasra typing)

Ash's abdominal tumor had metastasized to many of his internal organs, causing him to slow and eventually stop his food and water intake. I learned this earlier today, as an ultrasound was done to figure out what was going on with him, and once it was determined that it had spread that far, it seemed that the best choice was to let him go.

We just got back from putting him to sleep. I'm going to miss him.

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I think one of the hardest things I've ever had to do was leave his body at the vet's. He _hates_ the vet.

But he was purring before he died. And he'd been happy living with me.

And I'm kinda glad, in some respects, that my wrists have kept me out of work. It meant I'd been home a lot more with him.

Date: 2006-05-12 08:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] points.livejournal.com
*Tight hugs*

Date: 2006-05-12 08:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] datagoddess.livejournal.com
I'm sorry.

*hugs*

Date: 2006-05-12 08:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] the-xtina.livejournal.com
*big ol' hugs*

Date: 2006-05-12 08:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] majes.livejournal.com
Oh dear.
My heart goes out to you.

Date: 2006-05-12 08:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cjsmith.livejournal.com
Oh ouch. It's so sad when they go. :-(

Date: 2006-05-12 09:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] motyl.livejournal.com
so sad...

*hugs*

Date: 2006-05-12 09:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] starandrea.livejournal.com
My love ::hugs and cuddles::

You and Ash were so lucky to have each other. What a wonderful experience to have him in your life, and lucky for me, too, that I got to cross paths with such a charming kitty.

meow,
*Andrea

Date: 2006-05-12 09:13 pm (UTC)
randysmith: (Default)
From: [personal profile] randysmith
Oh, I'm really sorry. I had no idea things were that bad. *hugshugshugs*

Date: 2006-05-13 04:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com
No one knew it was that bad; see next post.

Date: 2006-05-12 09:18 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2006-05-12 09:22 pm (UTC)
rosefox: Me looking down and sideways, firelight reflecting on my face. (sympathy)
From: [personal profile] rosefox
Oh, I'm so sorry. *( I'm glad you got a lot of time with him. He knew he was loved for every moment of his life with you.

Date: 2006-05-12 09:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sunspiral.livejournal.com
::hugs:: I'm so sorry. He was a really sweet cat.

Date: 2006-05-12 09:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deyo.livejournal.com
{hugs} I'm sorry.

Date: 2006-05-13 04:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com
Thanks...

Date: 2006-05-12 09:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nex0s.livejournal.com
oh!

i'm so sorry :(

my deepest condolences. and you are right, he was very happy living with you.

n.

Date: 2006-05-12 10:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brynndragon.livejournal.com
Oh gods, I'm sorry *hugs*.

Date: 2006-05-12 10:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shadesong.livejournal.com
Oh, gods, poor Ash... he was such a wonderful kitty.

*hugs you*

Date: 2006-05-12 10:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] saluqi.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear this, I'm glad you got some time with him before he died.

Date: 2006-05-12 10:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ayalanya.livejournal.com
gods, i'm sorry. *hugs*

this is...sudden, to me. pardon, i'm going to be reeling for a bit.

you know, aside from my great grandmother, he's the closest person to me who's died. and we weren't really close after i moved out. but i'm glad i got to see and pet him on sunday.

Date: 2006-05-12 10:27 pm (UTC)
cutieperson: (wings)
From: [personal profile] cutieperson
i'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2006-05-12 10:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mactavish.livejournal.com
I'm so glad for Ash that he had you, and I'm sorry. I'm glad I met him, too.

Date: 2006-05-12 10:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kuruzansuz.livejournal.com
I'm sorry hon. i'm glad you got to spend time with him.

Date: 2006-05-12 10:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dancingwolfgrrl.livejournal.com
Aw, I'm sorry. *hugs*

Date: 2006-05-12 10:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cindygerb.livejournal.com
Hugs to fellow kitty parents. It's hard to let them go.

Date: 2006-05-12 11:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] psongster.livejournal.com
Oh, I'm sorry. I knew, you knew, we all knew it had to happen sometime, and it sounds like it happened well as such things go, but I'm still sorry.

Date: 2006-05-12 11:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] okoshun.livejournal.com
[livejournal.com profile] wispfox, I'm sorry you had to make such a hard decision, even if it was the best decision that could be made for Ash under the circumstances. :(

Date: 2006-05-12 11:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] galaneia.livejournal.com
I'm sorry. He was sweet cat.

Date: 2006-05-12 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gandalfgreyhame.livejournal.com
So sorry to hear :( my condolences.

Date: 2006-05-12 11:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cktraveler.livejournal.com
*hugs* I'm so sorry.

Date: 2006-05-13 12:18 am (UTC)
ext_6381: (Default)
From: [identity profile] aquaeri.livejournal.com
That is such a tough decision. *hugs* if you like.

Date: 2006-05-13 04:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com
Thanks for the hug (and returned). And yeah... it was tough...

my condolences...

Date: 2006-05-13 12:45 am (UTC)
ext_4541: (Default)
From: [identity profile] happypete.livejournal.com
my mom's kitty [who was once my kitty until he adopted her] is dying of lymphoma...it's a sad, sad thing...he's been a good friend and companion, as I'm sure ash was.

he's very weak now, I have hope that the chemo will give him back his quality of life, but I'm afraid it won't be very long.

at least you had each other, happy, to the end...

Date: 2006-05-13 01:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lightgatherer.livejournal.com
I am sorrier than I really have words to say. :( *hugs*

Date: 2006-05-13 03:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] regyt.livejournal.com
Oh, hon. I hadn't realized his health was that bad. I'll miss him, too. He was a sweet kitty.

Date: 2006-05-13 04:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com
No one realized that his health was that bad; see next post.

Date: 2006-05-13 03:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] uberjay.livejournal.com
Oh man, I'm soo sorry. :( :( :(

*hugs*

Date: 2006-05-13 04:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ian-gunn.livejournal.com
I so sorry to hear that. He was such a friendly little guy. *hug*

Date: 2006-05-13 04:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] urocyon.livejournal.com
Those darned fuzzballs come to mean so much to us. :(

Date: 2006-05-13 06:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jedi-diplomat.livejournal.com
*hugs*i'm sorry.

Date: 2006-05-13 06:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 3smallishmagi.livejournal.com
:( I'm sorry.

Date: 2006-05-13 12:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] leiacat.livejournal.com
*hug*

I'm so sorry.

Date: 2006-05-13 12:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yulecat.livejournal.com
*hugs-n-snuggles*

Sorry about Ash. But it's great that you were there for him so much at the end. A cat I grew up with and I were very attached to each other, and I've always regretted not being there for him at the end. I've gone out of my way to not let that happen again.

Date: 2006-05-13 01:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kyrene.livejournal.com
*hugs* I'm so sorry. I'm a huge cat person and mommy of two kittens. I can't even imagine what you are going through right now. :(

Date: 2006-05-13 01:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-helygen254.livejournal.com
*hugs* I'm so sorry.

Date: 2006-05-13 03:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] intenselaura.livejournal.com
Oh hon, I'm so sorry. *hugs*

Date: 2006-05-14 02:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] australian-joe.livejournal.com
He got to have two moms at home a lot. He got to boss twice as many people when it was time for bed.

If you add up all the chicken and prawns he had in his life, he got a pretty good deal.

He had a huge heart. And not just in the enlarged pathological sense.

I'll miss him resentfully purring when he realises it was me scritching him.

Date: 2006-05-18 09:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ailurodragon.livejournal.com
Alas, that our furry friends get a shorter span of time than do we.

I have no doubt, reading your words, that he had a good life with you. Your love for him shows.

Date: 2006-05-20 06:38 am (UTC)
macthud: (Default)
From: [personal profile] macthud
bleah.

*hugs* and sympathies.

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