He decided to stop sleeping with me rather than stop loving me. Just told me one day as he was heading out ther door, "I'm not sleeping with you anymore. Bye!" After 3 months of me trying to talk about it and him trying to avoid the subject, he managed to tell me that he had gone from non-hierarchical poly to his other chik becoming his primary without telling me, a month before his announcement. He also told me that he had stopped sleeping with me as a gift to her, without bothering to see how that might affect me. But he kept saying that he still loves me.
Obviously this is some definition of love that I was not previously aware of.
I'm still reeling from this episode, even though it's been about a year and a half since it happened.
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Date: 2005-06-28 04:20 pm (UTC)Obviously this is some definition of love that I was not previously aware of.
I'm still reeling from this episode, even though it's been about a year and a half since it happened.