wispfox

Well, that's one of my issues. I've had to deal with people who either don't interest me (and who either don't understand or don't respond well to my letting them know that) or are unpleasant about expressing their own interest enough that I've gotten kind of wibbly about how I flirt. I don't want to encourage people, but I do, and I'm really bad about . . . messages, I guess. I'm not good at verbalizing it. I've had two cases in which someone thinking I was "interested" was not only wrong, but I had no idea the other person was even operating under that assumption, go so awry that they caused social problems for awhile. So I get weird.