But anyone who knows you very well, or is empathic, will know both that you are _not_ really happy (like I said, I don't think I've ever seen you as happy as this past weekend), and possibly that you are pretending to be.
And how is _that_ good?
Making other people happy is fine, to a point. Making other people happy when it's making you unhappy (or more unhappy) is, IMO, beyond that point.
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Date: 2004-10-19 06:27 pm (UTC)But anyone who knows you very well, or is empathic, will know both that you are _not_ really happy (like I said, I don't think I've ever seen you as happy as this past weekend), and possibly that you are pretending to be.
And how is _that_ good?
Making other people happy is fine, to a point. Making other people happy when it's making you unhappy (or more unhappy) is, IMO, beyond that point.