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Jul. 12th, 2004 09:49 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
wispfoxSo, addendum to my previous post, which I _actually_ thought I should post almost immediately after leaving work but had no chance to.
I am _not_ under the impression that relationships which are as easy as I always thought that they should be able to be means that they will always be easy. Gods, no! That would be a bad thing to believe, oh, yes. All relationships have difficulties of some sort or another at some point(s), and they all require work of some sort (although if it starts _feeling_ like work, that's really not a good sign). I'd actually probably be a little worried if there were never any difficulties, because it would mean that either no one is growing, or things aren't being said that need to be.
Also, yes, venting earlier helped quite a lot. Interestingly, when I was thinking about posting it, I almost made it private, but then realized that if I _did_ that, I wouldn't put nearly as much work into making it say what I needed it to say as I did. Besides, you people seem to have this odd feeling of _liking_ to know what's in my head, including the stuff I don't much like having in there. Y'all are strange. ;)
I am _not_ under the impression that relationships which are as easy as I always thought that they should be able to be means that they will always be easy. Gods, no! That would be a bad thing to believe, oh, yes. All relationships have difficulties of some sort or another at some point(s), and they all require work of some sort (although if it starts _feeling_ like work, that's really not a good sign). I'd actually probably be a little worried if there were never any difficulties, because it would mean that either no one is growing, or things aren't being said that need to be.
Also, yes, venting earlier helped quite a lot. Interestingly, when I was thinking about posting it, I almost made it private, but then realized that if I _did_ that, I wouldn't put nearly as much work into making it say what I needed it to say as I did. Besides, you people seem to have this odd feeling of _liking_ to know what's in my head, including the stuff I don't much like having in there. Y'all are strange. ;)
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Date: 2004-07-13 03:00 pm (UTC)Yes and yes. *beams*
Interestingly, when I was thinking about posting it, I almost made it private, but then realized that if I _did_ that, I wouldn't put nearly as much work into making it say what I needed it to say as I did.
An LJ friend posted something in her other journal, to the general effect of, "I tried posting private-only for a few days, but I found that I was just mean and sloppy, and I don't want to be that way. Writing publicly keeps me in check, disciplines me, in exactly the way I desire to be."
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Date: 2004-07-13 03:23 pm (UTC)*uses a prism to reflect that into a rainbow*
Writing publicly keeps me in check, disciplines me, in exactly the way I desire to be.
Yes. Very much, yes. Which I didn't realize until I thought about not posting the previous post publicly.
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Date: 2004-07-13 05:27 pm (UTC)*bats at prism, then changes mind due to sharpness and dodging, bats at moving rainbow*
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Date: 2004-07-14 02:13 pm (UTC)*snacks on another rainbow*
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Date: 2004-07-14 02:16 pm (UTC)Flavored rainbows? Like Slushies? :)
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Date: 2004-07-14 02:19 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-07-14 02:21 pm (UTC)Mmm... rainbow slushie.
(Well, when you think about it, rainbows can get really tall, so they might be up high enough that the top parts are starting to freeze...)
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Date: 2004-07-16 07:10 pm (UTC)