I don't feel pressure to have sex just because I'm going out on a date.
Nor do I. But... someone who is going into a date with more intent than simply to get to know me will be giving off vibes of that fact, and they _will_ distract me from being able to get to know the person without that fact coming into play.
For me, with everyone I am at least reasonably close to, there is potential, if both parties are sufficiently interested, and there are no logical bars to that possibility (like someone being in a monogamous relationship, or someone simply not having any available energy, for example). But that doesn't mean I particularly want to be interacting with that consciously in my mind - it's a distraction, especially coming from someone I don't really know.
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Date: 2004-06-18 02:24 pm (UTC)Nor do I. But... someone who is going into a date with more intent than simply to get to know me will be giving off vibes of that fact, and they _will_ distract me from being able to get to know the person without that fact coming into play.
For me, with everyone I am at least reasonably close to, there is potential, if both parties are sufficiently interested, and there are no logical bars to that possibility (like someone being in a monogamous relationship, or someone simply not having any available energy, for example). But that doesn't mean I particularly want to be interacting with that consciously in my mind - it's a distraction, especially coming from someone I don't really know.
*shrug* Interesting, though. Thank you. :)