For me, discovering all these things required I not be in a primary relationship, because a primary relationship implied a level of entwinement that made it impossible for me to sort out who I am, coupled with a level of stress about partner happiness that compromised my ability to find energy to work on understanding myself.
Yes. Yes, indeed. Can I quote this comment? It's very, very true in my experience.
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Date: 2004-05-24 03:52 pm (UTC)Yes. Yes, indeed. Can I quote this comment? It's very, very true in my experience.