[me, random]
Nov. 22nd, 2004 05:41 pmOther people have interesting descriptions of me, all of which I will be forced to paraphrase because my ability to remember things word-for-word is nonexistant.
I am a being which causes people near me to be much sillier. The number of times I have been blamed for the silliness of people around me is astounding! "I'm not this silly when _she's_ not around!" (hey, look! A good example of when it _is_ ok to be pointing and laughing at the same time!) Silliness magnification!
I have a 'talk to me about things you don't normally talk to anyone about!' vibe. The most frequent application of this tend to revolve around sex/sexuality and energy work/esp/etc type stuff. I don't mind, certainly, and I suspect the fact that I am _INSANELY CURIOUS_, especially about how people's minds work, magnifies this effect. So, apparently, does the fact that I'm fairly difficult to cause TMI reactions in (squick? Those aren't quite the same... huh! I wonder if squick needs to be on my list of words I use...) or startle (at least about things in other people's lives).
I am calming. Not entirely sure how this and the silliness magnification manage to coexist, but whatever.
I am someone who must be taken entirely on my own merits. This apparently relates to the fact that I don't use myself as a baseline for 'normal' because I tend to expect that other people will _not_ be similar to me in lots of ways.
Mmm... can't think of any more right now. But I am amused.
I am a being which causes people near me to be much sillier. The number of times I have been blamed for the silliness of people around me is astounding! "I'm not this silly when _she's_ not around!" (hey, look! A good example of when it _is_ ok to be pointing and laughing at the same time!) Silliness magnification!
I have a 'talk to me about things you don't normally talk to anyone about!' vibe. The most frequent application of this tend to revolve around sex/sexuality and energy work/esp/etc type stuff. I don't mind, certainly, and I suspect the fact that I am _INSANELY CURIOUS_, especially about how people's minds work, magnifies this effect. So, apparently, does the fact that I'm fairly difficult to cause TMI reactions in (squick? Those aren't quite the same... huh! I wonder if squick needs to be on my list of words I use...) or startle (at least about things in other people's lives).
I am calming. Not entirely sure how this and the silliness magnification manage to coexist, but whatever.
I am someone who must be taken entirely on my own merits. This apparently relates to the fact that I don't use myself as a baseline for 'normal' because I tend to expect that other people will _not_ be similar to me in lots of ways.
Mmm... can't think of any more right now. But I am amused.
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Date: 2004-11-23 12:15 am (UTC)It's not just that. Becauase you don't do the non-verbal thing very much, your friends (I? :-}) quickly learn that if they want to communicate with you, they have to do so in a very verbal direct fashion. But that increases comfort about doing so in a verbal, direct fashion. If that makes any sense.
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Date: 2004-11-23 12:18 am (UTC)I'm this silly when you're not around. ^^
It's just that you being around adds to the fun!
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Date: 2004-11-23 12:49 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2004-11-23 01:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2004-11-23 05:07 pm (UTC)I think people haven't done as much of that lately as earlier in my life.
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Date: 2004-11-23 05:08 pm (UTC)That way you can describe me for yourself! ;)
(or, not. But the idea of everyone separately describing me just amuses me greatly)
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Date: 2004-11-23 05:09 pm (UTC)You are calming sometimes.
When you are calm.
Kinda like me.