It does make sense to me, because I'm dating someone who's disabled and in a roller-coaster relationship with her primary partner. I finally found that I had to let go of the sensation of having to stay with her or I wouldn't be able to enjoy the relationship for what it was and what got me dating her in the first place. runnerwolf's fire ceremonies are good for dealing with issues like that.
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Date: 2004-06-16 04:00 am (UTC)