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wispfox ([personal profile] wispfox) wrote2008-11-11 09:48 pm

So, um

[livejournal.com profile] australian_joe and I have broken up.

Distance ended up, in the end, being too much for me to cope with.

[identity profile] regyt.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
Aw hell. I'm so sorry to hear this! Lots of hugs when I'm up there this weekend, if you'll still be up for hanging out then.

[identity profile] chaiya.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:05 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* to you both.

[identity profile] gandalfgreyhame.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
Aww, sorry to hear. :(

[identity profile] moominmolly.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
I'm very sorry. Distance is really, really hard. Too hard. :(
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[personal profile] randysmith 2008-11-12 03:23 am (UTC)(link)
Oh my goodness. I'm so, so sorry. Please let me know if you want a shoulder, or a pair of arms, or something.

*hugshugs*

[identity profile] gentlescholar.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry for what you have lost. Best wishes.

[identity profile] psongster.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
I'm really sorry to hear that. I'd always wondered how the two of you managed it, having myself done a long-distance relationship of a few hundred miles and found that hard. So I was impressed you managed it as long as you did ... but across the entire planet really is a challenge. I'm sorry.

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2008-11-18 07:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, part of how is that that was how it started.

I do not know if never having had hope that I could move there to live with him would have made it easier, or harder. Or that hope it just helped mask the difficulty I was having, and let us stay together longer than we might otherwise have.

And thank you.

[identity profile] phaedra-lari.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:32 am (UTC)(link)
*hugs* I'm sorry to hear that. Distance is really, really hard.

[identity profile] epi-lj.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:39 am (UTC)(link)
Wow! :( *hugs, if wanted*

[identity profile] xiphias.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry.

[identity profile] intenselaura.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. :(

[identity profile] brynndragon.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, hon! *hug*

[identity profile] ayalanya.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:14 am (UTC)(link)
Mow. I sorry.

[identity profile] wcg.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry to see this. I hope you both have lots of happy memories and good feelings for each other.

[identity profile] jostajam.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. *Hugs*

[identity profile] dajt.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:33 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry.

[identity profile] jim-p.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Ouch! I'm really sorry to hear that (*hug!*)

[identity profile] corivax.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, I'm sorry to hear that. i wish there was more I could do.
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[personal profile] rosefox 2008-11-12 05:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

Drop me a note or an IM or a phone call anytime you want to talk with someone who knows a fair amount about how this one goes.
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[personal profile] cutieperson 2008-11-12 05:47 am (UTC)(link)
i'm so sorry :(

[identity profile] kightp.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
Aw. So sorry.

I understand, though. I can handle my LDR, but only because the D isn't too L for frequent visits.

[identity profile] hitchhiker.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 07:57 am (UTC)(link)
sorry to hear it :(

[identity profile] zanawake.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 09:52 am (UTC)(link)
*sympathy*

[identity profile] okoshun.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 12:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry to hear that. *hugs*

[identity profile] caulay.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 12:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I was afraid of that as soon as I saw the subject line.

*hugs*

[identity profile] staircasewriter.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 12:28 pm (UTC)(link)
HUGS

[identity profile] yulecat.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 01:21 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

[identity profile] figmentj.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 01:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. :(

[identity profile] fourgates.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 03:04 pm (UTC)(link)
<-- Hates distance too.
*sympathy*
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[personal profile] laurion 2008-11-12 03:39 pm (UTC)(link)
*Hugs* I've lost a few to distance in the past as well, I know how it hurts, even when you're the one calling it off.

[identity profile] starandrea.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 04:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Hugs you with great sympathy and extra love. Maybe this quote? "Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same." ? I would not have guessed that it was the right thing, but I know it must be one of the hardest things.

♥ ♥ ♥

[identity profile] the-xtina.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 10:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry.  :(

[identity profile] shadesong.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sorry.
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[personal profile] yendi 2008-11-12 10:49 pm (UTC)(link)
:-( I'm sorry.
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[identity profile] aquaeri.livejournal.com 2008-11-12 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry.

[identity profile] leiacat.livejournal.com 2008-11-13 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry, both-wise.

*hug*

so so sorry!

[identity profile] kemsit.livejournal.com 2008-11-14 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
Djat told me at lunch today. I've been horrible about keeping up in Live Journal.

I'm so sad for you.

[identity profile] alecto23.livejournal.com 2008-11-19 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry!! *hugs*

I just met up with [livejournal.com profile] wcg who let me know - I haven't read much LJ at all while I've been away. I hope you're doing as okay as you can be and that you have people looking after you well.