I'm really sorry to hear that. I'd always wondered how the two of you managed it, having myself done a long-distance relationship of a few hundred miles and found that hard. So I was impressed you managed it as long as you did ... but across the entire planet really is a challenge. I'm sorry.
Well, part of how is that that was how it started.
I do not know if never having had hope that I could move there to live with him would have made it easier, or harder. Or that hope it just helped mask the difficulty I was having, and let us stay together longer than we might otherwise have.
Hugs you with great sympathy and extra love. Maybe this quote? "Sometimes the hardest thing and the right thing are the same." ? I would not have guessed that it was the right thing, but I know it must be one of the hardest things.
I just met up with wcg who let me know - I haven't read much LJ at all while I've been away. I hope you're doing as okay as you can be and that you have people looking after you well.
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*hugshugs*
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I do not know if never having had hope that I could move there to live with him would have made it easier, or harder. Or that hope it just helped mask the difficulty I was having, and let us stay together longer than we might otherwise have.
And thank you.
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Drop me a note or an IM or a phone call anytime you want to talk with someone who knows a fair amount about how this one goes.
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I understand, though. I can handle my LDR, but only because the D isn't too L for frequent visits.
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*hugs*
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*sympathy*
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♥ ♥ ♥
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*hug*
so so sorry!
I'm so sad for you.
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