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wispfox ([personal profile] wispfox) wrote2005-01-18 09:52 am

[random.affection]

You'd think eventually I would stop being mildly surprised that getting reasonable (for me - probably rather high for most people) amounts of casual physical affection from any of the people I care about makes me more casually physically affectionate with everyone I care about (unless I have good reason not to be). And that being very tired (insufficient sleep, rather than just wintertime tired) will make me act on that more.

Made for an especially affectionate end-of-week and weekend, that did. Complete with spontaneous kissings of people with whom I don't have a previously established relationshp in which kissing is expected (but with whom I have fairly good reason to believe that doing so is fine).

I do strongly prefer myself being less overly cautious about casual physical affection. I really, truly do! Both in terms of not being shy about being cuddly with people who don't necessarily tend to initiate cuddling, and in terms of not being shy about acting on spontaneous desires to kiss people.

Wee! Lots of casual affection! (and wee with the not-so-casual affection as well, but that's not my topic of the moment. ;)
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[personal profile] randysmith 2005-01-18 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Hee. *hugs*

[identity profile] uberjay.livejournal.com 2005-01-18 03:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I really enjoy casual affection, but often have trouble initiating it. I am getting more relaxed as time passes, perhaps due to the kind of people that I'm spending time with. (who are in general very affectionate.) Woo! :)

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-01-20 06:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay! Is good that more relaxedness is happening, yes.

[identity profile] shadesong.livejournal.com 2005-01-18 05:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I see you in two days! Whee!

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-01-18 07:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes! Yes, you do!

I have no free nights for the rest of this week (unless you count while I'm at alt.polycon). But, is ok. :)

[identity profile] bridgetester.livejournal.com 2005-01-18 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Casual affection (from ze right sorta people) = much goodness

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-01-18 07:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes. :)

[identity profile] underwatercolor.livejournal.com 2005-01-18 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay! :)

Re: affection

[identity profile] wolfieboy.livejournal.com 2005-02-14 06:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay for casual affection. I think the world would do so much better with much more casual affection...

Yay for me working on catching up...

Re: affection

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-02-14 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay for me working on catching up...

Is that even _possible_? :)

Re: affection

[identity profile] wolfieboy.livejournal.com 2005-02-14 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
It's a question of going through saved Tab sessions and finding posts that are still useful to respond to. I'm down a bit. Course, I still have an uber tab session of 129 tabs but most of those are easy to take care of. I just haven't for some reason...

Re: affection

[identity profile] wolfieboy.livejournal.com 2005-02-14 07:18 pm (UTC)(link)
'Course it does seem that commenting first time on something seems more important than responding to comments that others have made. I'm not sure why that is...