jasra: (Shiny)

[personal profile] jasra 2005-08-27 05:10 am (UTC)(link)
Are you sure? :D

[identity profile] shadesong.livejournal.com 2005-08-27 02:46 pm (UTC)(link)
That's what I'm sayin'.

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-08-27 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
See my reply to [livejournal.com profile] jasra. :)

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-08-27 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
...

No?

Harem, in my head, implies things like there being a lack of equality. And that I'm supporting them. And that there is more defined relationship structure than there was in [livejournal.com profile] australian_joe's definition of such (see my reply to [livejournal.com profile] ratatosk for that). [livejournal.com profile] randysmith's definition is just funny. :)

By their definitions? Sure, I do. But by my interpretation of the word? No, I don't.

[identity profile] shadesong.livejournal.com 2005-08-27 07:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah! My definition (and, I suspect, [livejournal.com profile] jasra's, though I can't speak for her) doesn't imply support or lack of equality. Just lots of happy people being schtupped by the [livejournal.com profile] wispfox.

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-08-27 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Depending on your definition of 'schtupped', that is not, actually, what was meant by harem. Kissing with on-going mutual interest in more was the original definition. :) *points to later post*

But, yes.
jasra: (Shiny)

[personal profile] jasra 2005-08-27 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
My defintion is more like [livejournal.com profile] australian_joe's. It's definitely not a lack of equality... I think it's the shifting group of people who feel affection of varying levels toward you (and probably toward each other 'cause they're all just nifty people).

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-08-29 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it's the shifting group of people who feel affection of varying levels toward you (and probably toward each other 'cause they're all just nifty people).

I think _that_ probably better approximates [livejournal.com profile] randysmith's original definition, before he realized that he'd not quite defined it as he'd intended. But, yes. :)

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-08-27 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
And, by my definition, I don't _want_ one.
jasra: (red)

[personal profile] jasra 2005-08-28 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
By your definition, I wouldn't want one either. *sends you a new definition* ;)

[identity profile] wispfox.livejournal.com 2005-08-29 06:32 pm (UTC)(link)
*catches* Thank you! :)