I'm utterly willing to _completely ignore_ anyone else trying to tell me I'm complaining, if I disagree. This is by far not a case of anyone else can tell me what to do. I'm enough prone to thinking other people are experts in anything they sound confident in at it is! Better than I was, though; I don't automatically assume that confidence equals accuracy, and indeed am really annoyed by people who confidently assert inaccurate thing, _especially_ if it's something I do know about.