(More seriously: I'm happy to be part of your harem to whatever extent you'd like me to be, but I'm not really sure where I am, even by my own definition).

'Sok, neither am I. :)

By a definition which makes sense to me (for which "people I cuddle", regardless of the context in which I cuddle them, is simply too large a group and therefore not something I can keep in my head as a useful definition), you're not. But by 'people I cuddle' and 'people I seek out', you are. So, *shrug*.