Oh! So, okay, I might be wrong here again, but I think I got it.
What I thought you were saying was something like, "I need to believe that people can change, it's a part of who I am." I interpreted that as belief in something that may or may not be real, and I was startled, because I view change (in life, people, stones, whatever) as being an "Of course it exists!" thing. Akin to you stating that, wrt believing in cars.
What I think you were actually saying was, you have to remember that people can change. To keep it to the forefront, and not let negative emotions cause you to forget that basic truth.
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What I thought you were saying was something like, "I need to believe that people can change, it's a part of who I am." I interpreted that as belief in something that may or may not be real, and I was startled, because I view change (in life, people, stones, whatever) as being an "Of course it exists!" thing. Akin to you stating that, wrt believing in cars.
What I think you were actually saying was, you have to remember that people can change. To keep it to the forefront, and not let negative emotions cause you to forget that basic truth.
Am I closer to understanding?