CA not being difficult doesn't surprise me, really. PA does, a bit.

First doctor I tried was basically like 'you've never had a kid and your non-monogamous, I _don't_ think so'. But then, I didn't really know _why_ those restrictions were there, so didn't know what to tell people to inform them that I wasn't as huge a risk as they thought.

This last time, I knew what they were worried about.

And... dangerous? Never heard _that_ before. Huh. :)