I would, actually, not expect that to change much over time. I think I'd be shocked if ever I started figuring out flirting without a lot of help or a lot of obviousness on the part of the flirting person.
I _am_ better than I used to be, perhaps because I tend to have people indicating interest who are friends with me already, making it somewhat easier for me to read them, and making them more likely to be aware of my intensely verbal nature.
If it weren't for the fact that it would definitely increase the number of people indicating interest (and probably _sharply_ increase the number of uncomfortable-for-me-people indicating interest), I'd probably be better off wearing my "Don't just flirt, hit me with a clue-by-four" button. ;)
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I haven't changed much, either.
I would, actually, not expect that to change much over time. I think I'd be shocked if ever I started figuring out flirting without a lot of help or a lot of obviousness on the part of the flirting person.
I _am_ better than I used to be, perhaps because I tend to have people indicating interest who are friends with me already, making it somewhat easier for me to read them, and making them more likely to be aware of my intensely verbal nature.
If it weren't for the fact that it would definitely increase the number of people indicating interest (and probably _sharply_ increase the number of uncomfortable-for-me-people indicating interest), I'd probably be better off wearing my "Don't just flirt, hit me with a clue-by-four" button. ;)
Oh, look! I babble! :)