shadesong had a statement in a
this recent post which resonated strongly with me. So, I'm noodling on it. And you all get to see it!
( cut because I babble a lot )[edit - removed friends-only. Didn't really need to be there in the first place, and
shadesong linked to the post. If I don't remove friends-only, not many people will be able to *use* the link]